I think something long before someone else says it, especially when it comes to human behavior. If someone is deceitful or greedy, I can figure it out rather quickly. It just makes it ten times easier to play with their heads and make them come out of their comfort zone even more. A lot of people don't know the type of person they characterize them self with. For example, I know a girl who is ridiculously greedy, and she takes and takes without giving anything back. Since day one, I have watched her take money, time, effort, and love, with nothing in return. And I guess i could choose to call her out on that, but I usually let it slide. she recently 'lost' ten dollars that I had put in her purse when we went out. I know she didn't drop it, it was at the bottom of her bag wrapped around my ID card, and she managed to find the ID card and not the money. Greedy and sneaky. Those are the only ways to say it, because that's what she is.
Another example is when people try to fit in. The words that they choose are to try and gain attention from the person they deem as better or want to fit in with, and they can not yet open up to themselves.
People are shady. But just remember, I can read your social cues before you even know you're doing them. Watch out.
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